Tag: a failure to communicate

  • Such Pretty Red Flags

    Such Pretty Red Flags

    He did me wrong, but I did me wrong, too. I braided his red flags into my hair like ribbons,… Read more.

  • I’ve Lost a Friend

    I’ve Lost a Friend

    It finally clicked for me. I was fighting so hard to stay friends with this person who I didn’t even… Read more.

  • A Woman Scorned

    A Woman Scorned

    I couldn’t swallow any more anger down. I tried. I still needed my friend, but I also needed some space… Read more.

  • Boundary Issues

    Boundary Issues

    Late night texts after the break up hit very differently. I had to deal with him texting, “I miss you,” as… Read more.

  • The Fatal Blow

    The Fatal Blow

    I had to process the breakup and the new girl all at once. I was still licking my wounds, too… Read more.

  • Saudade Summer

    Saudade Summer

    I could not separate my memories of Portugal from the pain of this betrayal. It made it difficult to take… Read more.

  • Miles From Nowhere

    Miles From Nowhere

    “If you get on the wrong train, get off at the nearest station. The longer it takes you to get… Read more.

  • Without Him

    Without Him

    I tried to go to bed without him, but the thought “without him” coagulated, forming a lump in my throat.… Read more.

  • We Need to Talk

    We Need to Talk

    I tried to do my job, to act normal. I just wanted to know what was going on. The sooner… Read more.

  • Level Up

    Level Up

    The One isn’t something you find, it’s something you build. Through intimacy and shared memories over the years you create… Read more.